NOT MY DAUGHTER

 

 

   I'm sitting here thinking I never thought one of my daughters would be facing this. For 3 yrs. my 15 yr. old girl called a friend her girl friend. But for the last yr. my daughter contemplated how to end the relationship.

    Just a few days into her 9th grade yr. this yr. she comes home one day so  happy. The happiest I had seen her in a long long time. She told me the girl broke up with her. She told me she finally felt free. A few weeks later my daughter get s new girl friend. A few days later she tells me her ex is dating another girl. So it seems all is well they both are moving on. If only that were true.

    Here we are several weeks after the break up and a lot has going down. This girl has going from  slightly possessed with my daughter to over the top. We had suspicions something was not right when they were dating. But hen the break up happen at first we though well maybe we were wrong. But since than this girl has kept on finding ways to place herself back in my daughter's life. She has tried to get me to break my daughter and her current girlfriend up. This girl also claims that her now girlfriend is abusing her. But we question the marks that we have seen she could of done to herself. They seem mild and almost like hesitant marks. Like someone hit themselves hard enough to let a slight mark but nothing major. She showed my daughter a pic of a supposed hurt neck but was only slightly red in the pic. When my daughter saw her the next day there was nothing on her neck. The girl and her mom claim she went into the hospital for a suicide attempt  do to all the abuse but yet they left her leave that night. Which I know for a fact no way  they would do that. I  mean through things I have witnesses the mother is messed up too. She is falling for her daughter's crap too . Her daughter has lied to her mom quiet a bit about how intense and close she ever was to my daughter. 

    The daughter definitely seems to have a border line personality I would say but I admit  I am not a professional on such issues. The term thou I have found for what she is feeling towards my daughter is Fatal Attraction Syndrome. If she does have this she could be very dangerous. She has said things like I will love you forever, no one else can have you, if I can't have you no one can, without you I will hurt myself. My daughter has problems of her own as it is and does not need this. No one  needs this.

  We are now at the point that we are removing our daughter from public school because of the danger we believe this girl could be and the mental harm she has already done to our daughter. We have to make sure that our daughter gets the help she needs to deal with all this. We also need to make sure out daughter is kept safe. Her school can no longer guarantee that they can do so. So she will be cyber schooled most likely for the remainder of her High School education. We have left her school know we are done with this.

  It was bad enough alone when the school was lacking on giving our daughter a decent education as it was. But now this. Her father and I are done with all of this. we are fed up. We also both agree this girl could be very dangerous and we need to do whatever it takes to make our daughter safe again.